Understanding Life

It's an endless discussion to talk about 'understanding life'. But, let's look at it from realistic view of point where we get experience from day-to-day living up. I believe that, in order to understand life well, the best way is to look at any action from different perspectives and not to judge any aspect of life from first impression. I had gone through situations where i thought i was in a trouble but it seemed to be a while after that to figure out that i was blessed by that trouble. A question might be asked "how can a trouble be a blessing??" the ideal answer is that sometimes we get a trouble that prevents us from a bigger one but if we dont think back and analyze the scene of that situation, we wouldnt know the pros and cons of that trouble... So, here the concept of looking at life's aspects from different perspectives comes.
Another point is the way we look at a plan-to-be from a single mind. I believe that is not the best way to plan even for a small event in life. hence, in order to make a good plan you have to consult others and dont forget others have different thoughts than yours where they can see things u might unable to see. therefore, listen to everyone who advices you and get different ideas from different types of people so you can draw your own conclusion and make up your mind certainly. " A river would not make its path, if it wasnt supported by many streams"(Ahmed Al-shami, 2010)